Trauma therapy

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Your past doesn’t have to define you…

Trauma therapy addresses the pain and unprocessed experiences that live in all of us. Trauma is anything that overwhelms our perceived ability to cope. Trauma comes in many forms; there is the trauma of our lived experiences; abuse, neglect, violence, accidents, illness and grief. There is the trauma of our ancestors, passed on to us through relationships and DNA. There is the trauma of living in an oppressive society. This trauma can live in our minds, bodies, memories and beliefs about ourselves and the result can be devastating. You may be feeling overwhelmed and anxious or numb and exhausted. You may be experiencing racing thoughts, sleeplessness, flashbacks or nightmares.

Maybe you are struggling with guilt and shame, a loss of trust in yourself or the world, difficult relationships, or feeling like you don’t even know who you are any more. Whatever it is that you’re experiencing, know that you are not broken, because alongside the trauma story, there is always a story of resilience.

The aftermath of trauma, however, may be impacting so many areas of your life: your emotions, your sense of safety, your sense of self, your relationships, and your wellbeing, and you are wondering what on earth to do….

Trauma is anything that overwhelms your perceived ability to cope, whether a single incident like a motor vehicle accident, or ongoing experiences such as childhood abuse or domestic violence. When left unresolved, traumatic experiences can lead to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns.

  • Intrusive thoughts and flashbacks of traumatic memories

  • Sleep disturbances, including nightmares

  • Persistent anxiety and hypervigilance

  • Emotional numbness or feeling disconnected

  • Overwhelming feelings of shame or self-blame

  • Low self-esteem and negative beliefs about yourself

  • Relationship concerns and difficulty trusting others

  • Physical symptoms like chronic pain or fatigue

  • Panic attacks when triggered by reminders

  • Perfectionism, people-pleasing, and overachieving as coping strategies

For high-functioning women, these symptoms often manifest as an exhausting cycle of overthinking, overgiving, and putting others first—patterns that may have helped you survive but are now limiting your ability to thrive.

Signs you may be experiencing effects of trauma…

Heal from Trauma

It may feel impossible now, but you can heal from trauma, whether that trauma happened once or throughout your life; whether it was yesterday or over 40 years ago. You can feel better. You can achieve deep and lasting change. And I can help you get there with a mind-body therapies that go way beyond just talking — in fact, you don’t even need to talk about what happened to process that painful stuff, unless you want to!

Evidence-based approaches to Trauma therapy

  • As a certified EMDR therapist in Calgary, I use this powerful approach to help process traumatic memories without requiring you to discuss them in detail. EMDR therapy uses bilateral stimulation to activate both hemispheres of the brain, allowing traumatic experiences to be processed and integrated in a new way.

    EMDR can help you:

    • Resolve distressing memories and reduce their emotional impact

    • Develop more positive beliefs about yourself

    • Experience relief from PTSD symptoms

    • Improve self-esteem and emotional regulation

  • Accelerated Resolution Therapy is an innovative approach that can produce rapid results for trauma processing. Similar to EMDR but with distinct differences, ART uses eye movements with imagery rescripting to help you process traumatic memories efficiently.

    Benefits of ART include:

    • Often requires fewer therapy sessions than traditional treatments

    • No need to verbalize details of traumatic events

    • Effective for both single-incident and complex trauma

    • Particularly helpful for treating trauma-related anxiety and depression

  • For those seeking more concentrated trauma work, I offer EMDR intensives—longer, more immersive therapy sessions that allow for deeper processing in a condensed timeframe. These sessions are ideal for processing specific traumatic events when your schedule makes weekly appointments challenging.

    Additional Trauma-Focused Approaches

    My comprehensive trauma therapy services also include:

    • Internal Family Systems (IFS-Informed): A compassionate approach to understand different "parts" of yourself that developed to cope with trauma

    • Trauma-Informed Stabilization Therapy: Techniques to develop emotional regulation and create safety before deeper trauma processing

    • Observed and Experiential Integration Therapy: An integrative and gentle approach particularly effective for trauma and complex trauma

Accelerated Resolution Therapy and EMDR can help…

Build on your innate strengths, with practical skills to help you tolerate distress, calm your nervous system and handle those overwhelming emotions, so you can be more present, feel more in control of your life and build your resilience.

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Reprocess painful memories, draining away the emotional charge locked into them at the time of the trauma, so that you can access more positive beliefs about yourself and the world. 

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Take those gains made in the therapy room out into real life, to transform your relationships, your self-esteem, and your future.

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I’ll help through this process, tailoring each step to your unique needs and your goals.

My approach is rooted in a compassionate, integrative, and growth oriented process that builds on your innate wisdom and resilience. We all have “stuff”, because, well, life happens. I believe we are all seeking wholeness, that we already have everything we need to heal, and that yes, sometimes we all need a little help along the way.

Common Issues Related to Trauma

Anxiety

Trauma frequently manifests as anxiety, with symptoms including persistent worry, restlessness, and physical tension. EMDR therapy and other trauma-focused treatments address the root causes rather than just managing symptoms.

Depression

Many individuals with trauma history experience depression, characterized by persistent sadness, loss of interest, and hopelessness. Trauma therapy helps process the underlying painful experiences that contribute to these feelings.

PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder)

PTSD symptoms like flashbacks, nightmares, and hypervigilance can significantly impact daily functioning. Through trauma-focused therapy, these symptoms can be reduced as traumatic memories are processed and integrated.

Relationship Issues

Trauma often affects how we relate to others, leading to patterns of distrust, people-pleasing, or emotional distance. As you heal from trauma, you can develop healthier relationship patterns and deeper connections.

Childhood Trauma

Early life experiences can have lasting impacts on self-esteem, attachment, and emotional regulation. Specialized approaches like EMDR are particularly effective for healing childhood trauma and its effects on adult life.

Who benefits from my Trauma therapy services?

I specialize in working with adult women who may appear successful externally but struggle internally with anxiety, depression, racing thoughts, and self-doubt. My trauma counselling practice is well-suited for women who:

  • Work in helping professions (nursing, teaching, social work) or high-stress careers

  • Experience perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and people-pleasing tendencies

  • Have patterns of overthinking and putting others first

  • Are experiencing physical manifestations of stress (possibly chronic pain)

  • Feel burnout despite achievements and competence

  • Have experienced a recent crisis that has motivated seeking help

Common questions about Trauma therapy

  • Trauma therapy is a specialized form of psychological treatment designed to help you process and heal from traumatic experiences that continue to impact your daily life. Unlike traditional talk therapy, Trauma therapy uses evidence-based approaches that target the way traumatic memories are stored in your brain and nervous system.

  • Many women who come to my practice have spent years wondering if their experiences were "bad enough" to warrant Trauma therapy. The truth is that trauma is not defined by the event itself but by how it impacted you. If past experiences continue to affect your thoughts, feelings, relationships, or physical health, trauma therapy may be beneficial.

  • Trauma therapy can address a wide range of experiences, from single-incident traumas to complex, ongoing traumatic situations. There is no hierarchy of trauma, and your experience is valid regardless of how it might compare to someone else's story.

    Single-incident traumas include events like car accidents, medical procedures, assaults, natural disasters, or witnessing violence. These one-time events can create lasting impacts, particularly if you did not have adequate support to process what happened at the time.

    Complex trauma typically refers to repeated or prolonged traumatic experiences, often occurring during childhood or in situations where you could not easily escape. This might include growing up in a home with addiction, mental illness, or domestic violence. It can also include emotional neglect, where your emotional needs were consistently unmet even if your physical needs were provided for.

  • Many women who contact me worry about having to recount traumatic experiences in explicit detail. The thought of reliving painful memories can feel overwhelming, and this concern sometimes prevents people from seeking the help they need.

    I want you to know that effective trauma therapy does not require you to repeatedly tell your story in painful detail. The therapeutic approaches I use, including EMDR and Accelerated Resolution Therapy, can be highly effective without extensive verbal disclosure of what happened.

    During your intake session, I will ask you to share enough information for me to understand what brings you to therapy and what you want to work on changing. You can share as much or as little detail as feels comfortable. My goal is to understand how past experiences are affecting you now, not to extract every detail of what happened.

    When we move into trauma processing work, you can think about the traumatic memory internally without describing it aloud. I will guide you through the process, but you maintain control over what you share verbally. Many clients find this approach less retraumatizing than traditional talk therapy, where repeatedly recounting traumatic events can sometimes reinforce the distress rather than resolve it.

  • The duration of trauma therapy varies significantly from person to person, and there is no standard timeline that applies to everyone. Your healing journey is unique, and the time it takes depends on several factors.

    The nature and complexity of your trauma plays a significant role. If you are working through a specific traumatic incident, treatment may be relatively brief, particularly with focused approaches like EMDR or Accelerated Resolution Therapy. Some clients experience significant relief in a matter of weeks or a few months when addressing specific events.

    However, if you experienced complex or developmental trauma, particularly trauma that occurred repeatedly over time during childhood, healing typically takes longer. Complex trauma affects your sense of self, your relationships, and your nervous system in deeper ways that require more comprehensive treatment. Building internal resources, developing nervous system regulation skills, and addressing multiple layers of traumatic experiences takes time.

  • Trauma therapy sessions in my practice are structured yet flexible, always tailored to where you are in your healing journey and what you need most in that moment.

    Your first session is a 50-minute intake appointment. This is a guided conversation where I get to know you and understand what you would like to work on changing. I will ask about your current symptoms, how past experiences are affecting you now, your support system, and your goals for therapy. This session helps me understand the full picture of your life and begin developing a treatment plan that addresses your specific needs.

    Before we dive into processing traumatic material, we focus on building a foundation of safety and resources. This might take one session or several, depending on your current coping skills and nervous system regulation abilities. I teach you practical tools to manage anxiety, ground yourself when you feel overwhelmed, and regulate your nervous system. These skills are essential for trauma processing and for your daily life outside of therapy.

    Once we begin trauma processing work using EMDR, ART, or other modalities, sessions typically involve a combination of processing specific memories and building ongoing coping skills. I guide you through the structured protocol, but you remain in control. You can signal to me if you need to pause, slow down, or take a break.

  • Yes, Trauma therapy can significantly help with physical symptoms that have roots in unresolved trauma. Your body and mind are deeply interconnected, and traumatic experiences affect both.

    When you experience trauma, your nervous system becomes dysregulated. It can get stuck in a state of hyperarousal (always on high alert) or hypoarousal (shut down and numb), or alternate between these states. This chronic nervous system dysregulation affects your entire body, contributing to a wide range of physical symptoms.

    Many women I work with experience chronic pain, tension headaches, digestive issues, or other physical concerns that medical professionals struggle to fully explain. You may have been to multiple doctors, undergone numerous tests, and received diagnoses that do not quite capture what you are experiencing. Often, these symptoms have a strong connection to unresolved trauma and chronic nervous system activation.

  • The early stages of trauma therapy often look different than what many women expect, and understanding this can help you feel more prepared and confident as you begin your healing journey.

    Many clients come to their first session expecting to immediately dive into processing traumatic memories. However, effective trauma therapy actually begins with a crucial foundation-building phase. Before we process difficult material, I prioritize helping you develop the resources and skills you need to feel safe and grounded throughout the therapeutic process.

    During these initial sessions, we focus on stabilization and preparation. This means learning practical tools to regulate your nervous system, manage anxiety, and cope with difficult emotions when they arise. You might learn grounding techniques that help you stay present when you feel overwhelmed, breathing exercises that calm your nervous system, or ways to identify and work with the sensations in your body.

    This preparation phase is not a delay in treatment but rather an essential component of effective trauma healing. Think of it like preparing for a challenging hike. You would not set out to climb a mountain without proper equipment, supplies, and knowledge of the terrain. Similarly, you need adequate internal resources before engaging in deeper trauma processing work.

  • Beginning trauma therapy is a significant step, and I have designed my intake process to be as simple and comfortable as possible for you.

    Your first step is to contact me to schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation. This brief conversation gives us both an opportunity to see if we might be a good fit. You can ask questions about my approach, share a bit about what brings you to therapy, and get a sense of how I work. There is no pressure during this consultation, and it is simply an opportunity to explore whether my services align with your needs.

    If we both feel that working together makes sense, the next step is completing a simple onboarding process. I have designed this process to be completed from the comfort of your own home, recognizing that your time is valuable and you may be juggling numerous responsibilities. You will receive intake paperwork that asks about your background, current symptoms, and goals for therapy.

You don’t have to live life feeling like you can’t heal from trauma.

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